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Shared Exercise Oct. 19, 2022
DEAR SUSAN: I'd like to share an exercise that has helped me in these confusing times. Male-female r... Read More
Men and Undependence May. 25, 2022
There I was, sitting in the middle of a good-sized amphitheater, guest guru for a large Seattle grou... Read More
Fat and Feminism Feb. 16, 2022
DEAR SUSAN: Screaming and crying that men should find morbidly obese women sexy or women should find... Read More
Vive La Difference Nov. 03, 2021
DEAR SUSAN: You write a lot about undependence, but my friends don't see how it's different from ind... Read More
Bytes and Exercises Aug. 11, 2021
The single person is changing, morphing into a more confident and accepted member of the world. Ther... Read More
Freedom to Be Jul. 07, 2021
From one of my favorite books, "Risking," by David Viscott, here are some truths that resonate today... Read More
Expectations Feb. 17, 2021
DEAR SUSAN: I'm a flop at love. I've always been unlucky with the opposite sex. Even in a relationsh... Read More
At Long Last (Sigh) Feb. 10, 2021
No longer financial runners-up, women have earned the delight of replacing financial clout as a top ... Read More
The Declaration of Undependence Jan. 13, 2021
More than 100 million strong — and soon to gain majority status in America — the unmarri... Read More
Celebrate Your Singleness Jul. 01, 2020
Sounds a bit corny celebrating your own unmarried state, but trust me not to burden you with same-ol... Read More
Love Partnership Dec. 18, 2019
The days are gone when women made financial clout the top requisite for serious interest in a man. N... Read More
Reader's Choice Nov. 20, 2019
For the curious, my life's work found me. Catapulted overnight (literally) into young widowhood, and... Read More
Why Not Marry? Sep. 25, 2019
DEAR SUSAN: My mother and I have talked over the same question you asked today. And here's what I've... Read More
Reentry (Part 2) Aug. 21, 2019
Around the same time the newly singled realize their bed-hopping adventures actually make them lonel... Read More
Tips of Gold May. 15, 2019
—Get closer to your parents. Like most corny advice, this one's pure gold. These people who si... Read More
Life Engineering May. 01, 2019
A book reviewer recently called "Single File" an advanced course in Life Engineering, and the name f... Read More
Undependence (Part 2) Dec. 26, 2018
Love — the real deal — can exist only between lovers who are whole and distinct individu... Read More
