Q: While watching the news, I can't help but think that we are all constantly at risk for some disaster or another. There have been several major storms in the last couple years, and there's been a lot of political unrest and violence all over.

With that in mind, how can I prepare myself and my family?

A: Responding to and coping with nature's disasters is always challenging because we rarely anticipate them. Not knowing when or how emergencies will occur, we find ourselves suddenly having to protect ourselves, our families, our pets and others.

This is especially difficult when we are deprived of many basic necessities, like food, gas, electricity, medical care and transportation. When a natural disaster occurs in your area, be aware that you may be on your own for a few days. It takes time for help to become available, whether it's medical care, safety, food and shelter.

The best way to prepare is to have a backup plan and to make it before disaster strikes, not afterward. Every family should have the best and most logical emergency plan.

Figure out the best meeting place. Pick a school, a church, police station, a home or some other site. There may be telecommunication issues in a disaster, so tell your family members of the plan beforehand. If you are able, contact your out-of-town relatives and friends to tell them about your situation.

An ample home supply of water is essential. You can either buy water or refill empty bottles with your tap. A minimum three-day supply is recommended.

Turn off your natural gas and electrical services when appropriate. If you're lucky enough to have a propane barbeque, make sure the main valve is shut. The barbecue may come in handy for the next few days.

Most importantly, always keep at least half a tank of gas on hand. In a disaster, gas may not be available, and gas pumps may not work. Supplies are generally available within a short drive.

Although you may never need to execute these backup plans, you will undoubtedly feel more secure having them. Don't wait until the last minute! - Doug

HEAD IN THE CLOUDS

Q: I have a grandson entering his third year of college who doesn't seem to have any direction for the future.

How can our family try to get his head out of the clouds?

A: Everybody matures differently, and no one knows what the future holds. Your grandson is in a confusing stage of life and hasn't figured it all out yet.

Instead of addressing the issue forcibly, try to empathize with him. Do you remember having any similar struggles at his age? It's easy to judge others, especially when you've already lived your life, but he isn't there yet. Condemnation is often more detrimental than helpful.

Instead, ask him questions, and challenge his way of thinking. He has to find his own path, but you could help him by sharing your own experiences.

We each have our own talents, so encourage him to maximize his potential. — Emma, Doug's granddaughter

Doug Mayberry makes the most of life in a Southern California retirement community. Contact him at deardoug@msn.com. Emma, Doug's granddaughter, helps write this column. To find out more about Doug Mayberry and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com