According to Norman Shidle, a group becomes a team when the members are sure enough of themselves and their contribution that they can praise the skill, abilities and contributions of others. When you're comfortable with yourself, fear and prejudice go right out the window and you become an individual who knows the three C's of life: A person of Character has Compassion and readily Consoles others.
I think one of the most moving photos I've ever seen in a newspaper was a picture that was taken at the very end of the 1992 Army-Navy game. In that ongoing series, the won-lost record of the teams up to the day of the game appears to make little, if any, difference. This is a traditional game, and the athletes on both sides want desperately to win.
As many of you might know, Army won the game. Brian Ellis, the Navy quarterback, had just thrown a last desperation pass and was intercepted. The photo shows him on his knees, head bowed, as Army defensive back Cadet Gaylord Green stood by with his helmet in his hands, his face against the helmet of his fallen adversary. The picture said it all: "I know how you must feel. We just played a tough game, but underneath we're on the same team. We're different colors, but we're brothers."
As I viewed the picture of this Army player with his hands on the shoulders of the Navy quarterback, I could not help but think this was sportsmanship and America at their best. Green displayed Character and Compassion as he Consoled Brian Ellis.
Both of these young men serve as outstanding role models for the youth of today and, for that matter, the adults, as well. Know in your heart we're all on the same team, fashion yourself after Gaylord Green and Brian Ellis. Practice the three C's of life, and I will see you at the top!
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